Create The Love
My personal thoughts, quotes and mantras.
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In my new community launching on July 1st, we're going to kick-off with a challenge that's all about getting your life into alignment with your values. We're creating a new way, where people are shamed for their choice to stay or to go, we celebrate alignment. Go to https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/waitlist to be the first to know when the doors are open so you can save your spot.
Rejection is redirection. Sometimes it's hard to hold the rejection, especially when the rejection was delivered with disrespect. And yet, despite all that, one is always being directed towards growth and transformation. This is how the universe works. Evolution is ALWAYS making us stronger, more resilient, and inviting us to growth. The Universe is always expanding, and you are the Universe... so there you go. 😜🌎✨
Once the realignment occurs, the work isn't done. Why? Because alignment is not a destination, it's a way of living. It's a consistent honouring of new information and learnings as we make our way through life. Alignment is maintaining integrity with our knowing. It's honouring truth over everything. It's cultivating a life dedicated to the maximum expansion, joy and possibility, of both ourselves, and everyone who we share a relationship with.
Often we give love with conditions. We tell people we’ll love them if they do all of these “things” so that we feel safe. We call it love, but love would never try to control the environment. That’s fear. The irony is that every action we choose to prevent the hurt is inevitably going to lead to people leaving us, hurting us - because no one can handle endless jealousy, insecurity, harsh words, toxicity, and a partner who tries to control us so as to control their level of vulnerability.
A commitment to another MUST be synonymous with a commitment to yourself. This level of personal accountability with ourselves is rare, and seldom sourced from internal motivation. Our commitment to ourselves is usually found through our incongruent relationship to something or someone outside of ourselves. The results in our lives from being committed to anything but ourselves wake us up to seeing that it ALWAYS comes back to US.
You're not at the whim of connection, you are at the helm of it, and you decide who you want to hump. Don't just hump what wants to hump you. And don't just fall in love with people because they make your loins tingly. You're worthy of SO MUCH MORE. But to believe that, you have to see it through your choices. Me saying it is never enough. Words don't teach, your actions do.
I'm so excited to launch my new community on july 1st. We're going to kick on with a 30 day challenge that's allllll about getting your life into alignment with your values, and creating the type of life that feels good to live. Go to https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/waitlist to save your spot so you don't miss the chance to join!
The truth always sets us free. And in a relationship, if it liberates one person, it liberates the other, they just don't know it yet. When we're conditioned to participate in human systems that normalize hiding from the truth, being invited towards it, and accepting that invitation, can often be too confronting. But the choice isn't really a choice, it's: Hide from the truth or suffer from lie(s). #createthelove
If you've felt like there's MORE to life, love, and you are sitting on your own untapped potential, IT IS POSSIBLE TO WAKE UP AND LOVE YOUR LIFE. My new community is kicking off with a 30 day challenge that is all about getting your life into alignment with YOU. Go to https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/waitlist to sign up and to save your spot! You don't have to stay stagnant in your life and wish for more! LFG! Join the community now -- go to https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/waitlist
We're going to be becoming all of who we are in the month of July! I'm kicking off my new community with a 30 day challenge -- which is all about getting your life into alignment. No more sleeping on what's possible for you. No more pretending you don't know what you know. If you're ready to do just that and are done pressing snooze on your life, comment "ready" and I'll send you the link so you're first to know when the doors open so you can save your spot. #createthelove