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Guylaine Martin Strategies to improve relationship

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GUYLAINE MARTIN | COACH
When the words or actions of the one we love touch us in our suffering, our instinct may be to want to take control by changing the person so that they no longer cause us pain. Placing the blame for our suffering on others is not only unfair but it creates more pain for everyone. Only the recognition and understanding of the origin of the wound can begin the healing process which will give way to love. Become Stronger, The Healing Process, How To Improve Relationship, Relationship Coach, Healing Process, Take Control, Life Experiences, It Hurts, I Am Awesome
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The Healing Process
How To Improve Relationship
Relationship Coach
Healing Process
Take Control
Life Experiences
It Hurts
I Am Awesome
HOW OUR PAIN CAN HELP LOVE BECOME STRONGER
When the words or actions of the one we love touch us in our suffering, our instinct may be to want to take control by changing the person so that they no longer cause us pain. Placing the blame for our suffering on others is not only unfair but it creates more pain for everyone. Only the recognition and understanding of the origin of the wound can begin the healing process which will give way to love.
If you find you are having issues to find the right person to share your life’s journey with, ask yourself: Are you focused on the potential you see in this person or are you seeing them for who they are at this moment? Focusing on their potential creates unrealistic expectations that not only prevents you from getting to know the great person they might already be, but also stops you from creating a real connection with each other. Nature, Deep Nature, Improve Relationship, Unrealistic Expectations, Feel Loved, Finding True Love, Feeling Loved
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Knowing the qualities we look for and what we find unacceptable in a partner is a valuable guide in finding the right partner. But, when our vision becomes the lens through which we look at the other, our view of them is biased which does not allow that person to show themselves in their best light or to show us their deep nature. Truly loving someone means seeing who that person is AND seeing their potential. To feel loved, we all need to be seen, heard, and understood. ❤
Someone who truly loves you will accept you as you are, where you are in this moment in your life. They will never pressure you to do something you don't want to do or ask you to be someone you are not. They will give you the space you need to grow, will cheer you on, and support you on your journey. Being Your True Self, Love Us, True Self, To Shine, This Moment, Something To Do
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We sometimes give more value to the person we love than to ourselves by suppressing who we are to fit the image of who we think they want us to be. By doing so we strip them of the privilege to really know us and love us completely. Being your true self allows you to shine of your brightest light, to truly love and be loved, and to share your most wonderful gifts with the people around you.
To find true love, you have to take the time to discover the other: Their personality Their values Their vision of the world Their qualities and defaults Their expectations for the relationship Does what you discover match what you are looking for? Rushing into a relationship increases the chances of disappointment. Learning to appreciate the time of discovery strengthens the bond and allows you to build a stronger relationship based on trust. Stronger Relationship, Relationship Bases, Strong Relationship, A Relationship
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FINDING TRUE LOVE
Rushing into a relationship increases the chances of disappointment. Learning to appreciate the time of discovery strengthens the bond and allows you to build a stronger relationship based on trust.
STOP WAITING FOR OTHERS TO GIVE YOU WHAT YOU NEED - Listen to your inner self as all the answers are there. - Give yourself the love you need. - Appreciate your gifts and qualities. - Practice self-compassion towards your shortcomings and mistakes. Acknowledge them, learn from them, forgive yourself and move forward. It is only by looking within yourself that you will fill your heart and soul so you can give to others Self Respect, Self Compassion, Forgiving Yourself, Heart Soul, That's Love
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HOW TO MEET YOUR NEED FOR LOVE
If you feel an emptiness inside, first find in yourself the love, respect, and compassion you need. Nurturing your sense of self-love will then allow you to share that love with the people around you. #love #selfrespect #selfcompassion #relationshipcoach #lifecoach