Default parent resentment

People who were raised by emotionally immature parents often display these 9 behaviors (without realizing it)

The “default parent” is the name I came up with for being the parent who by default, does most parental things. This is a term that I have used when speaking with friends, or patients. This isn’t a role that you volunteer for or that you necessarily come to an agreement on, but rather it happens by, as you guessed it, DEFAULT.

honestly.kaitlyn on Instagram: Being the default parent doesn’t happen intentionally, it just happens without even thinking about it. Keeping track of everyone’s…

Default parenting is when one parent takes on most of the childcare responsibilities. This can lead to resentment; communication is key.

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Bitterness, Indignation, and Forgiveness: What to do when your resentment is affecting your motherhood - and how to get back to a place of love and compassion for yourself and your partner.

2.6M views · 30K reactions | Anybody else feel this? The mental load that comes with being the default parent is no joke. The feelings of resentment are real, at times totally consuming. #motherhood #mumsontiktok #momtok #motherhoodintheraw #parenthood #mumlife #mumtok #postpartum #momstruggles #defaultparent #mentalload #mumsoftiktok | Chubbylittleones | Chubbylittleones · Original audio

default parent

There are four different types of emotionally immature parents, but at the root of each type is poor emotional development, a lack of relational skills, self-centeredness, and a struggle to develop deep emotional intimacy with their children. If you have an emotionally immature parent, it is wise to exercise discernment regarding the things you share with them. Have boundaries, and remember that some things are not your parents’ business.

New research proves something women have long suspected.

Sometimes parenting can feel unfair - especially if the role of the default parent falls onto your shoulders. As the default parent you may find you have...

A mom shares that even if we like being the default parent for the rewarding connection to our kids, we still need support in parenting.