Securely attached

If you want to date someone securely attached, here is what to look for. 1) Do they actually want a relationship. 2) Do they like being in...

Why do adults with secure attachment tend to build deep, meaningful, and long-lasting relationships? In early childhood they had these five conditions met.

How to find a secure partner by becoming secure yourself.

In adult relationships, attachment styles are prominent — even if we don’t realize it. It can be easy to point out all the insecure, avoidant, and fearful avoidant people we encounter. It can also be easy to identify these traits in ourselves. However, if we want to develop a secure attachment style or partner securely attached people, we need to know how to recognize the signs and how to develop these traits.

People with a secure attachment style feel comfortable developing trust in relationships and aren’t afraid to become close to other people, which sounds pretty nice! So how do you develop a secure attachment style? We’ve collected the information to get you started.

Do you initially see your partner through rose-tinted glasses and then become disappointed when they don’t perfectly meet your needs? Psychotherapist Jessica Baum is here to help.

A securely attached relationship is a beautiful thing. It's a place where mutual trust, emotional intimacy, and a deep sense of safety and comfort exist. Many of us did not grow up with or experience secure attachment. But it is possible to develop in adulthood. By using our current relationships, with friends, partners, family, etc., we can allow for new corrective experiences to teach us how to have secure attachment.