Growing up, I was told that I shouldn’t tell my husband everything. That advice, I believe wholeheartedly, is laced with good intentions based on what the women before me have experienced. It could be something as a big as a secret bank account or something as small as what you spent your own money on. But my husband is my safe space and I tell him everything…even the hard stuff…even the stuff I know he might disagree with. In our house, we share everything because we have a marriage based…