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How to Set One Micro-Boundary This Week (for the wife of an alcoholic)
alcoholic can be daunting, especially when you know you need boundaries, but the whole concept of setting boundaries feels overwhelming. In this post we'll explore the power of micro boundaries - small yet significant steps towards reclaiming your peace and energy. These manageable actions can pave the way for healing and self-respect, offering a gentle approach to a challenging situation.
The Sound of Silence
In the tumultuous journey of dealing with an alcoholic spouse, silence can be both a shield and a sword. Understanding when to use silence constructively can be a game-changer in maintaining your peace and sanity. In this post we'll explore how silence can be a powerful tool in your relationship with an alcoholic husband, helping you to navigate the emotional roller coaster while ensuring your own well-being.
Are they choosing booze over us? (for the wife of an alcoholic)
Anger. I had SO much anger. I was absolutely livid at him for what 'he' was doing to his life, to our marriage, and to our family. I am not proud of this, but I remember saying 'I hate you' to him under my breath on numerous occasions when he was drunk. I'm sure that was cause for much celebration for the enemy, because he already had a grip on my husband and now he was tightening his grip on me. That makes me feel just terrible now, especially since I understand addiction so much better than I used to.
When You’re Triggered by the Sound of a Bottle (for the wife of an alcoholic)
Living with an alcoholic spouse can be an emotional rollercoaster, filled with unexpected triggers that can send you into a tailspin. In the latest episode of the Married to Addiction podcast, we delve into these triggers - like the sound of a bottle opening - and explore how they affect us physically and emotionally. More importantly, we discuss practical tools to help you regain control and find peace in moments of distress.
Jekyll and Hyde
Today we are exploring the challenges Christian wives face when their husbands exhibit contrasting behaviors, often resembling the well-known Jekyll and Hyde personas. This discussion dives into practical strategies for managing these dynamics and emphasizes the importance of nurturing your own recovery journey alongside your spouse’s.
Worst Case Scenario
Life with an addicted spouse can feel like an unending storm, where the fear of the worst case scenario looms large. In this post, we delve into the heart of these fears, exploring the 'what ifs' that often consume us. We discuss how to shift focus from fear to faith, turning potential despair into hope and growth. Join us as we unpack these vital topics, offering guidance and support to find peace amidst the chaos.
Other Types of Addiction
For those who find themselves in the challenging role of being married to an addicted spouse, life can feel like an endless roller coaster of emotions. This post is dedicated to providing hope and practical guidance, helping you navigate the turbulent waters of addiction with grace and strength. Here, we explore the complexities of living with a partner's addiction, whether it be alcoholism or other forms of dependency, and discuss how you can reclaim control over your life.
Dealing with Triggers
Living with an addicted spouse can often feel like walking through a minefield of emotional triggers. These moments can send our emotions spiraling, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and out of control. In today's post, we explore the nature of these triggers and provide practical strategies for Christian wives of alcoholics to regain their peace and stability.
Stop Listening to All the NOISE
Being married to an alcoholic husband can feel like being caught in a whirlwind of confusion and chaos. This post explores how Christian wives of alcoholics can find clarity by tuning out the overwhelming noise of external opinions and instead, focusing on divine guidance. We'll delve into the challenges of seeking answers in the wrong places and the transformative power of listening for the right voice.
Navigating This as a Christian Wife: Part 3
Navigating the challenges of living with an addicted spouse is never easy, and for Christian wives, it often comes with an added layer of complexity. In this discussion, we delve into the feelings of shame and loneliness that can isolate us, explore the unique struggles we face within our faith communities, and introduce a supportive space designed just for you.
Can your husband stop drinking on his own?
Navigating the complexities of living with an alcoholic spouse can be daunting, especially when your husband decides to tackle sobriety on his own. In this post we explore whether self-detoxification is feasible and what factors influence its success. Understanding these dynamics is crucial for supporting your alcoholic husband through his journey, while also maintaining your own peace and resilience.
How Long Should You Hold Onto Hope?
In the journey of being married to an alcoholic, hope can often feel like both a lifeline and a heavy burden. This discussion explores the concept of hope for Christian wives of alcoholics, emphasizing the importance of placing faith in a higher power rather than solely in the prospect of a spouse's sobriety. By reframing hope, we can find a path to peace and assurance, regardless of the circumstances.
Being 'Ready' for Recovery
In the intricate dance of recovery, understanding when an alcoholic spouse is truly ready to embrace change is pivotal. Just as one must be ready to commit to healthier eating habits, so too must one be prepared for the journey of sobriety. This discussion delves into the parallels between these two challenging paths, offering insights and encouragement for Christian wives of alcoholics navigating this difficult journey. Readiness is a crucial component in the recovery process. Much like deciding to embark on a healthier lifestyle, recovery requires a deep, personal commitment. Without genuine readiness, any efforts towards change may falter. This section explores what it truly means to be ready and why it's essential for lasting recovery.
Navigating Life with a ’Dry Drunk’
Navigating the complex journey of recovery with a spouse can be both hopeful and daunting. In this post we delve into the concept of a 'dry drunk' - when a person is sober yet still exhibits addiction-related behaviors. Understanding this phase is crucial for Christian wives of alcoholics, as it highlights the necessity of setting boundaries and seeking support for oneself and one’s partner. Let’s explore the significance of these discussions and how they can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling life for both partners.
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